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Love will hurt... no matter what you do. Whether it's your boyfriend, parents, siblings, etc., these are "people", and people will always fail you no matter what. It's not like they do it on purpose, but it's because they are human and we are all not perfect.

The only one you can truly rely on is God. Whether you believe in God or not, believe in a higher being other than yourself and others. God will not fail you nor forsake you. So get yourself geared up to his standards and all your problems and worries will be gone... and you will no longer ask these silly questions, because you will know ahead of time.

Below is a link to a video on relationships by Joyce Meyer (http://www.joycemeyer.org)
http://www.joycemeyer.org/OurMinistries/Broadcast/Radio/Archive/20070217.htm

You don't have to be a Christian or believe in God to listen to what she has to say. All you need is an open mind and a heart to follow through.

Hope this helps everyone in their search for happiness and true love. A lot of times, it's already there, we're just not being patient to know it exist.

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Well, it depends.....

Is his best friend a "male" or "female"?

Overall, do you trust him? Because trusting your significant other (whether male or female) is a big thing in a relationship. Unless he has given you reasons not to trust him, then "yes", it is stupid to be mad at him. Any person in a relationship should be able to have their "alone" time. A relationship should be effortless and if you have to track your guy or girl down, then that means that you have no life or interest other than your boyfriend/girlfriend... and that is a very bad thing. Each should have it's own outside interest in order to keep your sanity (with or without a girlfriend/boyfriend). Who are you living your life for?... them? or yourself? This is not to be selfish either, but it is simply giving you character and an identity for yourself outside of everyone and the person who you are with. That's why majority of couples fight because they have nothing else better to do other than focus on each other and how boring is that. And the same holds true when one does have a career or a hobby and the other one does not. The person who sits home and watches TV all day is bored as heck and wonders what the other person is doing.

I am going to end it here, otherwise I'll end up writing a book on this... LoL! Hope it was helpful!

p.s.
If you can't trust your man/woman, then it's time to move on. What's the point in being with someone you can't trust? You'll just drive yourself insane!!! I KNOW... take it from me.... I've done the same stupid mistake. But it only takes one time to figure it out.

Here's a thought.... "Shame on him the first time", but "Shame on me if it happens again"

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like pink diva said it depends on who the friend was. if it was a girl who stayed the night then maybe. but is she related to him or have they been friends for years because if they have then yea it is stupid to be mad at him. but if you have reason to believe that the friend that is a girl is a little more than a friend then yea you could be mad. but do you trust him? if you trust him and you are mad then it is stupid. ok on the other hand was his friend a guy? if his friend was a guy then yea it is prolly stupid to be mad because we all need our space and maybe they were just having a guys night and that should be ok because we need our girl nights so if we can have our girl nights then they should be able to have there guy nights! i mean seriously we all need a little space!! i mean i love my guy so much but i will admit i know we need a little space... even though we neither one want the space we know that we need a little bit of it!!

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It's not like he'll never see you again. There's certain things his friend and him can do together (like hang out), that the two of you can't.

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Chances are he knew this friend before he knew you, so you shouldn't have a problem.

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Barbobot
commented 2 years 4 months ago

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Besides, bros before hos.